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“The Wright Brothers flew through the smoke screen of impossibility.”
-Dorothea Brande

It was the 1890′s and the race to fly was on. Even Wilbur Wright himself in a moment of deep disappointment, remarked to Orville that man would fly, but not in their lifetimes. Somehow the brothers moved past the disappointment, setbacks, obstacles, failures, copycats, haters, and lack of resources to hold a place of national and international acclaim.

Their critical steps and mindset are a virtual map to success.

Analyzing how they did it might very well bring YOU one step closer to flying through the smoke screen of impossibility in your own life, work, and art. Today is the first of three articles that’ll give you 16 timeless lessons from the Wright Brothers approach to invention and innovation. Tune in later this week for the rest of the lessons about ignoring impossibility and making your vision a reality!

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Take a Different Approach

From the beginning of their aeronautical work, the Wright brothers focused on developing a reliable method of pilot control as the key to solving “the flying problem”. This approach differed significantly from other experimenters of the time who put more emphasis on developing powerful engines.

If genius is really about 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration as Einstein said, then approaching things differently in your work can have a significant impact. How are you approaching an age-old problem in a new way?

With Teen Identity Portraits and Magazine, we took the traditional photo studio and turned it on its head… we didn’t do traditional portraits, we didn’t sell big wall prints, we focused on raising the self esteem of teen girls, and empowering them with a voice and vision for their future.

Since its inception three years ago, many other studios and photographers have started to take the concept and claim it as their own… as far as a desire to reach teen girls and raise their confidence and esteem, that’s great! When it comes to copying our approach, our style, and even our name or slogan, that’s not okay… for them or us. For them, it will never have the power it did for us since it came from our hearts, our vision, our idea. For us, it’s treading on copyright and a brand we’ve been building, that has gained traction and media attention, and requires action.

Best solution? Take your own unique and different approach… give it your own unique spin, name, style and brand. That’s where you’ll win.

Collect Accurate Data

Using a small homebuilt wind tunnel, the Wrights also collected more accurate data than any before, enabling them to design and build wings and propellers that were more efficient than any before.

Are you capturing data about what works? What works in your life to inspire you, to force you to take action, to implement change? Are you creating processes, testing them, selecting the best one, and writing it all down? Are you implementing systems that you know work because you’ve collected enough data to clearly see the difference?

WHY NOT? 

Pay Attention to Early Interests

In 1878 their father brought home a toy “helicopter” for his two younger sons. Wilbur and Orville played with it until it broke, and then built their own. In later years, they pointed to their experience with the toy as the initial spark of their interest in flying.

Much of who we are and what we love to do started early. It may not have been in the same form or function as it currently looks or you may have abandoned what you loved for more practical pursuits, but now is the time to drag them out again. What was it that sparked your interest? Was it reading, writing, visual images, visiting places, spending time with people, sketching, singing… make a list and see how many of those you are pursuing now.

Then CHANGE SOMETHING! Start doing more of what you love and less of what you don’t.

This is your only life. Live it.

Gain Essential Skills

They gained the mechanical skills essential for their success by working for years in their shop with printing presses, bicycles, motors, and other machinery.

There is no shame in early or small beginnings. What you learn along the way can guide and influence your thinking for a lifetime. Become a tinkerer. Not only does it sound cool, but you can gain valuable knowledge about what works and what doesn’t without a huge investment in the outcome. Don’t worry if your tinkering isn’t directly in the field you eventually want to conquer.

Much of what we do and learn today is transferrable… are you learning to be efficient, effective, action-oriented, tolerant or any of a million other skill sets? Those will help you in your future which may be just around the corner!

Conduct Extensive Testing

From 1900 until their first powered flights in late 1903, they conducted extensive glider tests that also developed their skills as pilots.

You cannot be afraid to test. Most people would say they aren’t afraid of testing, they are afraid of failing. However, testing and being open to extensive testing requires a willingness to fail repeatedly and not give up. You must develop the emotional maturity and mental loyalty to stick with your idea even when it doesn’t work right the first time. That goes for building a business, pursuing your art, or even building legos.

Develop your skills. Hone them. Test them.

Stretch yourself beyond the current limits of what you think is possible.

There you have it! Five incredible lessons for how to blow through the smoke screen of impossibility. It’s been done before by people less talented but more willing to invest their energy in doing the work.

Will you be one of those people?

Take the first step… Identify one of the above strategies and tell us in the comments what you’re going to do to make it happen today!

Unique. Original. Creative.

Scarlett Rayne, one of our Teen Identity team members, has some forward-thinking ideas about life, friendship and identity… and she’s bold enough to share them with the world.

More images and stories coming over the next few weeks from our latest Teen Identity team photo shoot… where we empower and inspire girls to unleash their true beauty, find their voice, and change their world… forever.

What do you value most in your life currently?

I’ve always loved music and on the days that mom takes away my radio or albums or something I could seriously die. I know that sounds really over dramatic, but that’s just how I feel. I really don’t know where I would be or what I would do without it, because it’s gotten me through so much.

scarlett feature3 Photo Shoot + Interview with Aspiring Teen Musician: Scarlett RayneWhat is your vision of your future?

I really hope to have a pretty successful music career, I don’t expect to have a career anywhere near bands like Led Zeppelin or Aerosmith or Jefferson Airplane, but I hope that I get somewhere.

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What characteristics do you look for in friends? How do you choose your friends?

I usually don’t walk into a room full of people I don’t know and meet someone, I usually take a few days to realize who’s worth my time and who’s not. I don’t like being associated with people who have very hateful or violent personalities or views on life and people who just constantly put people down or think that there are better than everyone.

I really can’t stand liars or brown nosers; the people that will say anything to impress you or please you, what’s wrong with being honest and just saying what you feel and being yourself? (I get it if you’re trying to find yourself but don’t make up a life or be mean while doing it.)

Those are usually the people that I get along with; the people that say they like the color pink just because everyone that they’re around does, and the people that tell me that they like my pants because that’s what I want to hear.

Bottom line, I like friends to be very honest (not mean), genuinely loving, nice people who are true to themselves.

What do you say or tell your friends when they’re feeling down or depressed?

I usually have to say something along the lines of, “Hang in there, there are things to live for, you just have to find them. Giving up is easy, keep holding on and one day you will find that something to live for.

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Sometimes it may feel that you’re the only one that’s hurting, the only one that’s in this position, that life couldn’t get any worse and this is the only way out, but it’s not and you’re not the only one, you’re not alone, you just need to hang in there and I promise you, you will see that light at the end of the tunnel things will get better, You just have to take life one moment at a time. Things will get better, trust me they will; I promise you.”

What do you worry about most?

I’ve learned that life is waaayyyy too short to worry about things, things that are most of the time out of your control, and that I shouldn’t worry about anything and just enjoy life; live life to the fullest.

Describe your ideal world related to how girls are treated… at home, at school, at work, in life.

Lots of women are taken advantage of, screamed at, beaten, and held to higher standard just because of being women, I really don’t understand why. All that happens to men too, but a lot less because they’re just that, men. I really hope that women will one day be respected more and treated better, and not held to such a high standard because we are only human.

Much has been written and talked about in reference to taking action, including productivity and making ideas happen. For those in the creative professions or aspiring creative professionals, how can we harness this power of action to move our businesses forward… or at the very least move one step closer to the fulfillment of bring the vision in our minds to reality?

A couple weeks ago, we took action on an idea that had been brewing for a while. We wanted to do a fantasy shoot with our Media and Model Team of teen girls from Teen Identity. They are a group of girls we meet with at least twice a month. Once a month we have a photo shoot or video shoot, but October 22nd we decided to combine the two to create something different, something that none of the girls would have ever experienced before.

Location secured, styling and outfits procured, ideas cultivated, inspiration binder created, storyboard drafted, and music selected. The title and voiceover would come later, but we knew the direction we were going.

Was it a lot of work? Yes, without a doubt. Was it worth it? Yes, without a doubt.

Sometimes I have to admit that I question why we do what we do. I know that’s normal, but it’s never fun to question all the work you invest into a project, group or even person. It’s hard to feel that maybe you care too much or that the outcomes of any particular project, shoot or business mean more than they should. But that is the case with the creative heart and soul. As much as I’ve tried to stay distanced or create a work boundary, I never succeed since I do really care so much about each and every one of the teen girls on our team.

But when I sit back and look at what we create practically and the experience we offer, I know that it matters, the work matters, and the experience changes lives, futures, and therefore, the world. Doubt that?

Think about this.

When you were a teenager…

  • Did you struggle with wondering if you were valuable?
  • Did you wonder if you were pretty enough?
  • Did you question whether people really liked you?
  • Did you wish someone would “see” you… really see the core of you and accept it?
  • Did you ever secretly hope someone would “discover” you and that your life would be forever changed?

If you answered yes to even one of these questions… or maybe all, WHAT IF… that had all happened for you… at 12, 13, 15 or even 18? What difference would it have made on your choices for school, friends, relationships, career, life?

Really think about it. That’s what keeps me going. I KNOW if these questions had been addressed in the affirmative for me with caring friends and adults, a close team of girls and visual evidence with photos and videos, my ENTIRE IDENTITY could have been affected.

So that’s why we took action to change the world with our photo shoot… Tribe Quest. Watch the trailer now. See more images. Film coming soon!

WEB lourdes 2 372x600 Who Are You As a Photographer? Notes From Jasmine Star WorkshopI once said that if I could do anything as a career and get paid for it, it would be to attend conferences, conventions, seminars, and trainings for a living. I absolutely love to learn. If the topic is relevant, the speaker engaging, and the environment comfortable, what an absolute joy. My mind comes alive with ideas as I scribble notes furiously into my moleskin to save for future reference. In reality, I may never go back through the notes, but I believe that the important pieces that struck a chord are with me as I move forward in living a creative life.

So when I received the opportunity to attend WPPI University in Atlanta a few weeks ago, I cleared my schedule for one day and made the trek to downtown Atlanta for the conference. It was actually a 3-day event, but at the last minute I was only willing to give up one day to attend. I definitely chose the right day as the speakers were fantastic.

For those of you who are reading this jealously wishing you could attend more conferences, I’m going to share some of the key nuggets I learned. Does that help? At least a little bit? I certainly hope so.

Here goes for speaker #1: Jasmine Star. I’ll share some of her key points and how I processed (and would like you to consider) them!

  • Play to your strengths and outsource the rest.
  • Outsource to companies who can do things better than I can.
  • Do the work that gets you more work.

Do YOU know what your strengths are?

I’ll bet you do, but may not have articulated them yet. Would you take 2 minutes and write down 3 things that are your strengths? It’s not bragging. It’s being real about what you do well!

Are your images generic, lifeless, forgettable? In this day and age of everyone with a quality digital camera, you can’t make it as a professional if your images are any of the previous 3 words. If they are, be honest and change. You know you have the creativity within you. Sometimes we just need a kick in the pants to force us to push the edges of our creativity a little further. Consider this that kick!

“There will be a phase of years where your taste is killer and your skill is not so good. Do a lot of work. The volume of work will help you close that gap.” – Ira Glass

Is that quote not incredibly perfect? It’s exactly why Scott Bourne challenged me to start my 365 photography project. He knew that it was a volume of work that would help me close the gap between my taste and skill.

What about you? Are you producing enough work to close that gap as rapidly as you would like? If not, you know what to do. Get shooting!

Make your own rules and play your own game. 

I love this idea because it’s exactly how Teen Identity was envisioned. I knew that my strength was working with teen girls… I knew if I could focus on photographing them that I’d play to my strengths, interests and passion. I created my own game and was the first studio to focus primarily on teen and senior girls. Instead of playing someone else’s game on someone else’s court, I started my own game with my own rules. So far it’s been wildly successful.

So what’s your game? What are your rules? I wanna see some revolutionary stuff that is insanely great coming out of you! Got it?

Twenty years ago, I was a dancer. If you’d asked me, I would’ve told you my two dreams were to be dancer and a writer. At that time, dancing was first before everything… everything.

Today I look back at that time and see such innocent youthful hope and fear. I wanted so much for my dreams of dancing to come true, but was just as fearful that they would and wouldn’t. It was an odd dichotomy that didn’t end well.

Fast forward to today… when I get to photograph a dancer and see the familiar joy and freedom on her face as she strikes a pose, I feel that I get to experience a bit of what it used to feel like to call myself a dancer.

One of Teen Identity team members is a dancer… I see myself in her at times. I love to photograph her dancing. I dream of photographing a sea of dancers some day… that would be amazing.

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Yes, ma’am. I was selected out of a slew of applicants to teach a Master Class at WPPI (Wedding and Portrait Photographers International) in 2012. The event happens every year in Vegas. A couple years ago, my fabulous hubby taught a platform class and I was right there with him… this time we’re each running our own show. He’s got a Master Class to teach too. Just hoping and praying they know not to book us at the same time!

My class will be about what I’m most passionate about… teen girls and helping them maneuver the rocky road of adolescence… teaching photographers how to build confidence and esteem in every teen girl they photograph. That’s the goal!

If you’re headed to WPPI, I’d love to see you there. I’m sure we’ll put together a lunch, dinner or coffee meeting of some type, so make sure to let me know! If you’d like to get a jump start on what we’re teaching, you can check out the Teen Identity network for photographers.

I have to tell you it’s an absolute honor to be on the same teaching docket as such creatives as award-winning photographer Jennifer Hudson, Kenny Kim, and Charles and Jennifer Maring.

Would absolutely love your ideas and suggestions for what you’d want to hear me teach and talk about at the Master Class. I’ll take any and all suggestions to heart as I create and refine the program!

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It’s a frequent truth, oft repeated in books and movies, that the master often becomes the student and the pupil becomes the teacher. I frequently feel that way with my amazing group of teen girls that I work with through Teen Identity. Our vision is to guide them toward finding their voice, unleashing their true beauty and embracing the amazing power they each possess inside. Yet, why is it that just as often I am inspired by their confidence and courage in the face of peer pressure and the reality that they live in each day? They are my heroes and I am honored to be part of their lives that shine so bright.

This week we get to celebrate each of the girls we work with at our Teen Identity Model Extravaganza. It’s an event we plan for six months… a chance to celebrate the girls who have been part of our team and participated in meetings, photo shoots, video shoots, and events. They’ve given back to the community at charity events, gained confidence in front of the camera, both photo and video, and they’ve shared their passion with their friends and family.

One of the very first activities we have them do as our media and model team is to take part in a traditional photo shoot of model headshots. However, I ask them to leave their inhibitions at the door and just be themselves. Of course I’m asking this at the beginning when they hardly know me and they certainly don’t know most of the other girls on the team. It’s a tall order, I know, but I also know they are more than capable.

Just take a look at the images in this video… their “test” shots and you’ll see that the song I selected to highlight these images is perfect… the title is “Let Me Be Me.” These girls took that to a whole new level as they let themselves be free in front of the camera and just enjoy who they are in this moment in their lives.

Please enjoy this brief glimpse into their hearts…

It might seem self-serving, but that’s what a blog is right? Or at least that’s what Julie from “Julie & Julia” fame said… it’s a whole of me, me, me and what you call meltdowns. Okay, so maybe my blog is a little less me and fewer meltdowns, but that’s another point entirely.

What I’m trying to say is that for some reason, I have been given the most amazing and creative family a woman could possibly dream to have. My daughter wrote and sang me a song for my birthday, my son dressed as a superhero to save the day, and my husband… well, he created an entire film for me and about me.

The title… Who is Tasra?

It starts out with me and the intro we created about my vision for Teen Identity, then he unearthed some hidden footage from a previous shoot when I was talking about how passionate I am for helping teen girls find their voice and unleash their true beauty… then it gets amazingly heartfelt and brings me to tears to hear from girls I’ve worked with over the years and the impact we’ve had on their lives and confidence.

Wanna know the answer from the perspective of those who have been part of my life? Just watch this….

Starting Fresh in 2011

Tasra Dawson —  January 1, 2011 — 8 Comments

Summing up an entire year is quite a task, so I won’t try to cover everything. Even Chris Brogran kept his summary minimalist and encouraged others to do the same.

Planning for a new year is an equally large task, so I’ll focus on the highlights.

Doing a bit of both is inspiring, powerful and will engage the best parts of you, so I highly recommend creating your own year-end successes and year-ahead plans.

ACCOMPLISHMENTS (in no particular order)

  • Lost 20 pounds
  • Completed tasra365 photography challenge
  • Spoke at SPA (Senior Portrait Artists), POSH, WPPI Pictage booth, MTPPA
  • Launched Teen Identity Photographers Network
  • Launched Teen Identity Model Program and shot most portrait sessions in a year
  • Featured in PPA Magazine for Teen Identity Portraits and Magazine
  • Partnered with C28 and Christa Taylor clothing lines
  • Designed/selected new logos for The Femme Fotog and Teen Identity
  • Created and shot photo series, “Voices of the Victims
  • First gallery showing of images
  • Guest blog on Scott Bourne’s PhotoFocus blog, including selection as Top 100 WordPress blog post
  • Teen Identity Models selected as SPA Model Finalists
  • Won Ronzoni + Mom Central, Snap Suwanee, and POSH Inspiration photo contests
  • Emerging Photographer of the Year Finalist
  • Images selected for display in COLOR gallery
  • Selected for CreativeLIVE David DuChemin Vision Driven Photography Event
  • Planned and created Suwanee Festival of Books + Teen Identity Fashion Show and Event
  • Attended Spread the Love and Fast Track Photographer

2011 PLANNING (initial ideas for who I want to be and what I want to do… still working out the details)

  • Healthy
  • Maintain weight loss
  • Relaxed, peaceful
  • Take trip to Europe
  • Increase and enhance Teen Identity Model Program
  • Shoot 100 or more teen/senior photos
  • Edit and publish teen novel (two drafts already complete)
  • Consistent blogging on The Femme Fotog and Teen Identity
  • Launch The Femme Fotog Coaching Program
  • Write and publish tasra365 book or ebook on improving your images 300% in one year
  • Attend photo workshops and conferences

So, what’s on your plate for 2011? Have you taken a moment to celebrate your 2o11 successes? I’d love to hear about them and celebrate with you!

There is an art and science to getting and maintaining constant improvement in your life and creative endeavors.

This post will look at how you can transform your photography, as seen through the lens of my own transformation, as well as set the bar for what’s next in the coming 365 days.

Here’s what I’ve found to work well for completing a 365 day challenge…

  1. CLARITY. Make sure you know exactly what you’ve committed to and write it down, preferably somewhere public. If you don’t, your mind will play tricks on you and allow you to back out of what you know you really want to accomplish.
  2. CONSISTENCY. During the first 30 days, you MUST meet or exceed your challenge requirements every single day. The force of habit in those first 30 days will inspire and drive you through the rough middle stages of your transformation.
  3. COURAGE. It often takes more courage to continue a task than to start one. The reason is that initial expectations and notions of greatness must be abandoned. In order to complete your task, you must accept “good enough” on your way to “greatness.”
  4. COMMUNITY. You can transform alone like the caterpillar becoming a butterfly, but it’s much easier when you are surrounded by community. Don’t stay in your cocoon, spread your wings, join with others, and learn to fly together.
  5. COMPLETION. There is fanfare in beginnings, but transformation happens upon completion. Many start the race, but not everyone finishes. Be a finisher. Even if you end up crawling across the finish line, do not give up. Remember the tortoise… he always wins.

Completing the first year of tasra365 was a bit anti-climactic. I’m not sure what I expected, but it didn’t show up. I actually felt depressed after I clicked the Publish button on my final post. My spirits sank a bit, rather than rising up and shouting.

What was this? After all that work, all the time invested, how could I be disappointed and discouraged?

Let this be a warning to those of you still on your journey… it may not happen to you, but if it does, I found a solution. I needed another mountain to climb, a challenge to face, an adventure to begin. Until I found a new beginning, I would sit in the past of my accomplishment, rather than let the future spur me on to greater transformation.

So here is the plan…

tasra365 meets tasra52

Today is the beginning of tasra365 – Year 2. I’m taking on a new challenge to transform my writing 300% in one year. For now, the challenge is to do some creative writing daily. That could be a blog post, morning pages, journal, prayer, novel, etc. There is no word minimum or maximum, but it must be writing, not editing. It starts today with this blog post and will continue throughout the next 365 days – some online, some offline, but daily commitment to developing my writing once again (more on why I chose that area in a later post).

Today is also the beginning of tasra52 – a weekly challenge. The past 365 days focused on photography, understanding my camera and learning how to be a better photographer. The next 52 weeks will focus on taking those images and transforming them creatively after-capture. I’m setting a weekly challenge for myself to transform my post processing skills. At a minimum, I’ll choose one image and focus on post processing, which could mean limiting myself to only Lightroom or a certain number of actions, it could mean creating a new preset or Photoshop action, it could mean processing and recording my steps so I can start building favorite images recipes and batch processing. The options are limitless, but bottom line is that once a week I’ll focus on everything after capture.

There are many reasons I chose that topic for tasra52, but the image below is a perfect example. I processed this image last week and love the look. Unfortunately, I didn’t keep the PSD layered file, nor did I write down the steps I took to create it. That means it’s basically one of a kind… great for painters who are selling million dollar paintings, not so great for me when I really like and want to duplicate the look for other images. So, next time it’s going to be part of tasra52 and I’m going to be able to share with you every step I took so you can try it at home too!

Are you with me? What do you think of these new challenges? I’d love to get your input!

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A special thanks for all who commented on the blog, Facebook and Twitter with your congratulations yesterday. When I read your comments, tears came to my eyes. That community piece in our transformation is so vital and knowing the journey had been valuable to you as well made it all worthwhile.