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This is the age of the linchpin, the creative, the indispensable.

No more cogs, automatons, and mindlessness.

Creativity, growth, and change are the norm, the requirement, the new standard.

This is the time of knowing who you are.

Are you prepared?

I’m writing a series of posts called The Awkward Series, because there’s liberty in being real, authentic and honest with who you really are, how you’re wired, and what matters to you. I invite you to do the same.

I invite you to explore this idea with your images, your blog posts, your reading.

Are you game?

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For the Overachiever

Tasra Dawson —  January 22, 2012 — 8 Comments

If you’re reading this, there’s a pretty good chance you either are an overachiever or know one. Actually there’s a 100% chance that’s true because if you aren’t one, you know me and I am one. Without question.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret for how to build in permission to slow down in your life.

For me, it started with my first 365 challenge issued by Scott Bourne. The rules he set were strict, without exception. I found myself inspired, challenged and seriously struggling to meet them every day. I got the message and importance of each of the rules, but the reality of life got in the way. That year I did my best to meet the expectations of all the rules, but fell short a few times. The results were tremendous but the level of stress and joy that it required was often more than the joy and pleasure I wanted to experience from the process.

I wouldn’t trade it for anything, but what I learned from that process helped me craft a new set of expectations for my second journey down 365 lane. This time I set the rules with an understanding of what was most important. I want to take or post a picture every day, and this far I’ve done that. In fact, the taking of the images is more important than the posting so that’s my focus.

You may have noticed that it’s been about 5 days since I posted an image. That doesn’t mean they didn’t happen. But by giving myself permission to take or post an image, I’ve successfully created an environment where the most important aspect of the challenge gets the focus. That’s critical and so important in helping me keep up with the challenge and joy involved.

How could you rethink or re-imagine your 365 challenge or a new one that will move you closer to where you want to be without adding any unnecessary rules that will hinder your creativity or steal your joy?

For the record, this is where most of my time and attention went last week…

tasra class zero preso image For the Overachiever

This is the first section in a presentation I prepared for Class 0, a new class created by tentblogger John Saddington. We started doing some of the pre-work for the class in December, but the first official meeting was Thursday of last week.

Here’s a description of what the class involves:

  • crazy intense and rigorous program of knowing oneself, knowing what drives them and their passions, and then giving them tools to make these ideas happen.
  • It may end up changing the trajectory of your career… and life. No softball pitches here.
  • You need to be ready to be vulnerable with me and two other people whom you have never met.
  • You need to be humble enough to be challenged but sure of your desire for professional change and growth.
  • Walking away with an incredible new perspective on how you were made and your unique strengths, your core motivations as a person and professional, and a toolkit and method to make your ideas happen.
  • The bragging rights of being called “Class 0″ – so cool.
I’ll be posting images from our first meeting since I captured some for my 365 project and to capture the amazing experience we all had!
Until then, remember to rethink your “rules” to set yourself up for success and joy in your work and life!

 

It’s real simple.

We exist in a world that moves so fast we lose (or momentarily forget) our humanity. Or maybe we don’t forget our own humanity, but we forget the humanity of the person on the other side of the screen.

Today, will you remember? Try it.

Then tomorrow and every tomorrow after that, will you remember too?

It could change everything…

Powerful message from Derek Sivers, author of Anything You Want.

When we yell at our car or coffee machine, it’s fine because they’re just mechanical appliances.

So when we yell at a website or company, using our computer or phone appliance, we forget it’s not an appliance, but a person that’s affected.

It’s dehumanizing to have thousands of people passing through our computer screens, so we do things we’d never do if they were sitting next to us.

It’s too overwhelming to remember that at the end of every computer is a real person, a lot like you, whose birthday was last week, who has three best friends but nobody to spoon at night, and is personally affected by what you say.

Even if you remember it right now, will you remember it next time you’re overwhelmed, or perhaps never forget it again?

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that.”
-Martin Luther King Jr.

A legacy of inspiration and social change will forever be intertwined with the memory of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. His words and courage send a powerful message to the hopeless and downtrodden, to the oppressed and weary.

Wherever you are today, remember that your tomorrow could look vastly different than any you could have imagined if you hold fast to your dream.

Here’s my small tribute to his great legacy…

martin luther king quote image MLK Jr Tribute: Hatred Darkens Life, Love Illuminates It

“Hatred darkens life, love illuminates it.”
-Martin Luther King Jr.

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Day 16 of 365 Photo Project: Smoke & Mirrors

Photo Equipment

Canon EOS 5D full frame (not Mark II MLK Jr Tribute: Hatred Darkens Life, Love Illuminates It)
Canon EF 50mm f/1.8 MLK Jr Tribute: Hatred Darkens Life, Love Illuminates It
Alien Bee light (set to left of the stool with incense)
Grid Spot

Camera Settings

Shutter Speed: 1/100
Aperture: f/3.5
ISO: 100

Other Equipment

8 sticks of incense (placed on stool in front of me)
2 wavy mirrors (in front of the incense stool leaning against wall)

Some days it feels like someone, something or the world in general is out to get you, knock you down, trip you up, and thwart your highest hopes, greatest dreams and best plans.

Am I right?

Other days you feel like you’re unstoppable, invincible, and moving mountains. Yes?

What’s the difference? What’s the worst enemy of your success? Not the only, just the worst.

Answer these questions to reveal your worst enemy…

  1. Has anyone broken more promises to you than you?
  2. Has anybody lied to you more than you lie to yourself?
  3. Is anybody a worse enemy to you than you are?

Let’s make this simple. I’ll answer for you. No. On all three counts. Disagree? Go back to question #2.

smoke mirrors tasra live insanely great image 3 Simple Questions Reveal the Worst Enemy of Your Success

We’re the problem.

Before you crawl in a hole or pull the covers back up over your head, hear me out. Don’t hide behind the smoke and mirrors of self esteem mumbo-jumbo that really masks the issue. I’m not saying you’re a mistake, a screw-up, irrevocably flawed, or that you’re not valuable.

What I am saying is:

If you’re the problem, you’re responsible.

Before you buckle underneath the weight, you must know that this is GOOD NEWS because:

  • Responsibility is power.
  • Responsibility is the ability to respond.
  • Responsibility = Response + ability.

Don’t miss this.

Let it ruminate. Let it seep into your being like a river of clean water removing and refining any junk left over from someone else’s or your own harsh words and criticism.

Realizing, embracing and being empowered by it gives you freedom to stop hiding. I don’t know what you hide behind but there are some common smoke and mirrors:

  • degrees
  • career/job title
  • finances
  • fans/followers/friends
  • subscribers/page views
  • equipment
  • marital status
  • looks
  • body
  • religion

What would you add to the list?

I’ll be back this week to unpack these ideas more. Until then, remind yourself of who you are.

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Day 14 of 365 Photo Project: Smoke & Mirrors Self Portrait

Photo Equipment

Canon EOS 5D full frame (not Mark II 3 Simple Questions Reveal the Worst Enemy of Your Success)
Canon EF 50mm f/1.8 3 Simple Questions Reveal the Worst Enemy of Your Success
Alien Bee light (set to left of the stool with incense)
Grid Spot

Camera Settings

Shutter Speed: 1/100
Aperture: f/1.8
ISO: 100

Other Equipment

8 sticks of incense (placed on stool in front of me)
2 wavy mirrors (in front of the incense stool leaning against wall)
Dark hoody sweatshirt

 

Some photographers are so good at what they do, seeing their images makes me want to hang up my camera and call it a day.

But I don’t.

Honestly, you could replace the words “photographer” and “camera” with any creative art and be right on target.

Writers and their pens.
Artists and their sketch pads.
Musicians and their instruments.

We must overcome the desire to compare our work to that of others. On a practical level, too often we compare our raw images to their processed featured images. Or we compare our images after three years to their images after thirty. Or we compare our studio work with their photojournalism. (Feel free to replace “we” with “I” in all the previous sentences!)

rolliecord vintage camera image quote If Youre a Photographer, Declare Yourself the BEST Photographer

If you are a photographer, declare yourself the best photographer.

I’m paraphrasing Ernest Hemingway’s character in Midnight in Paris who said the same of being a writer. He also said, “You’re too self effacing, it’s not (wo)manly.” I agree with both statements. Declaring yourself the best doesn’t mean that someone else isn’t, it means that you are the best photographer you can be at this time, in your given set of circumstances, with your current equipment list, and level of experience.

Embrace that truth and you’ll challenge yourself to make incremental improvements so that your best becomes better each and every day.

You have a voice. You are the best person to express that voice to the world through your images. Don’t let anyone else tell you differently.

If you can acknowledge and accept the potential of your story showing up in each image that you capture, you will find your creative eye liberated and push your boundaries to learn and grow at levels you may not have experienced before.

You knew this before you grew up and forgot. My son is six and he embraces it without hesitation:

“My name is Joshua and I’m the best LEGO builder in the whole wide earth.”

Who are YOU and what are you the BEST at?

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We’re clearly a bad judge of our own creations… 
are you holding back something that seems too obvious to share?

He was originally a professional musician and circus clown, then created and sold a company for $22M, giving the proceeds to a charitable trust. His TED talks have been viewed by over 5 million and he was a #1 Amazon author in 2011.

Impressive, yes?

Here’s what I find even more impressive. His message. Who am I talking about?

Derek Sivers. Founder of CD Baby. Author of Anything You Want Why Derek Sivers Says Youre a Bad Judge of Your Own Creations. He will challenge you.

THREE WAYS TO CHALLENGE YOUR CREATIVITY

And today’s message for creative artists (photographers, filmmakers, writers, designers… YOU) is:

Obvious to you. Amazing to others.

Which of the three challenges above resonates with you most?

You can watch even more of Derek’s videos on his site and follow his journey as he creates a new company in Singapore. Make sure to check out the recent feature A Better Way of Business did on Derek after reading my article 5 Reasons You Must Pursue Whatever Scares You.

Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live. - Dorothy Thompson

I recently read Derek Sivers (founder of CD Baby) book, Anything You Want 5 Reasons You Must Pursue Whatever Scares You and was taken with the way he pursued what interested him, stayed true to his interests and lived life as an adventure. He wrote an article titled, “Whatever scares you or excites you, go do it.”

There are so many variations on this theme in inspiring quotes and personal sayings, but I liked his simple philosophy.

Derek Sivers’ two basic rules in decision making:

  • whatever excites you, go do it
  • whatever scares you, go do it

Every time you’re making a choice, one choice is the safe/comfortable choice and one is the risky/uncomfortable choice. The risky/uncomfortable choice is the one that will teach you the most and make you grow the most, so that’s the one you should choose. So if traveling Europe as a vagabond for a year is what seems more scary and exciting, do that!

5 Reasons to Pursue Whatever Scares You

  1. Security is an illusion. We often make what we think is the safe or comfortable decision, without realizing that it’s all an illusion and could change in a heartbeat. When someone finds out they only have a year to live, their illusion of security disappears and they make radical choices. Why not make those choices before you get the news?
  2. Fear is not always helpful. Most people have fears of loss: home, people, possessions, memories. Those fears can paralyze and limit healthy decision making. Think about your most frequent or biggest fear and take it to the extreme… what’s the worst that could happen?
  3. Change is not all bad. When you are the one making the change and the choice, it’s infinitely easier than when it’s forced on you. Choose your changes beforehand and you’ll have the benefit of a clear mind and head to plan and prepare.
  4. Stuff is not important. Filling up a home with stuff we like or even enjoy is fun, but it’s not the point of life. It’s an accessory. As much as possible, holding lightly to things and tightly to people is critical to having the strength to pursue what scares you.
  5. You are stronger than you think. We underestimate our ability to adapt and our courage in the face of fear. Comfort does that to you. Get uncomfortable this year and start to build your ability to tackle your fears. You’ll surprise yourself.

What would you add to the list?

What reasons would you give for why we must pursue what scares us? Or excites us? As this long year comes to a close, I can tell you that we have latched on to this philosophy and are making some radical changes in the near future.
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Creating a new version of you is easier than you think. I’m having my daughter create a new version of me as I write this.

HOW DO YOU CREATE A NEW VERSION OF YOU?

That’s a great question. For years I’ve wanted to have a sketch version of me… a version that makes me smile when I see it in print or online. I wasn’t sure if I should take a stab at it since I do enjoy sketching (not an expert though). I don’t especially think I’m talented in that category so I thought maybe I could find something or someone online to create the new me. It wasn’t a high priority, until now.

For Christmas, my daughter decided to give both my husband and I sketches of our favorites characters… Audrey Hepburn for me and Gandalf for my husband.

A SPARK OF AN IDEA

That sparked this idea again and I asked if she’d be interested in doing some sketching for my blog. Happily, she agreed!

On her artistic request, I sent her some sketches that I like, some images of me, and some words to describe me. It’s a sketch inspiration board, and of course we used Pinterest to bring a lot of the ideas together. If you’re a creative of any kind, you should definitely be using Pinterest for inspiration. I wrote an entire article about…

How to Use Pinterest to Improve Your Photography

I thought you might want to see what we did as a spark for ideas you may have brewing in your own creative mind!

CREATING A PINTEREST INSPIRATION BOARD

  1. Look in your own boards for ideas. I have a board called “Everyone Needs a Stylist.” That’s where I went first since I knew I had a few of my favorite style and fashion sketches there.
  2. Jot down keywords to describe you. I asked friends on Facebook for help. Some of my favorites were: Old world, classic, confident, authentic, dreamer, traveler, artistic, writer. What’s your word?
  3. Do a keyword search on Pinterest. I searched for sketch, drawing, fashion, style, vintage, camera and a few other keywords to get ideas.
  4. Start a new board and pin your ideas. My new board is called Sketchy Style. Having all your ideas in one place makes it easy for the artist to reference and get inspired.
So that’s our plan. I hope to unveil the new version of me at the beginning of the year!
Would love to see any ideas you might have for creating a new version of you this year!

A documentary, Dive: Living Off America’s Waste, reveals the real costs of food-industry waste, and why diving in the dumpster at Trader Joes might actually be a good idea. Watch the trailer and read the tips below to put $600 back in your pocket this year. Who couldn’t use an extra $600, right? And NO, you don’t have to dive in the dumpster to save it!

“Waste is a natural byproduct of our excess.
Throwing away food is a bad habit many of us don’t even think about.” - Jeremy Seifert

HOW MUCH FOOD DO YOU WASTE?

Think about it across an entire year. When you have friends over for holiday meals, so much food is left on each plate and dish. And since we cook in excess, some of it will eventually go bad when it’s not eaten as leftovers. It happens on a daily basis across America. But not for everyone…

“11 million people in the U.S. are actually going hungry. 
Thirty-five and a half million people in the U.S. are ‘food insecure.’”
- David Gist, California regional organizer for Bread for the World

In other words, 35.5 million people and counting don’t know where their next meal is coming from. In the United States, we waste 96 billion pounds of food a year you’d need a train long enough to go from Los Angeles to New York City and back again to transport it all.

“If we were to cut our food losses in half,
we would probably reduce our pollution rate by about 10 percent.”

- Timothy Jones, former head of the Garbage Project at the University of Arizona.

Some stores are concerned about liability issues from donating perishable food near or past its expiration date. However, this documentary made it clear that the issue was addressed in 1996 when Congress passed the Bill Emerson Good Samaritan Act, which was designed to “encourage the donation of food and grocery products to nonprofit organizations for distribution to needy individuals.” Specifically, the Good Samaritan Act provides that donors “shall not be subject to civil or criminal liability arising from the nature, age, packaging, or condition of apparently wholesome food …” except in cases of gross negligence or intentional misconduct. So why don’t they do it?

“It’s easier—and maybe even cheaper—to just throw it away,
instead of organizing with a food bank.”
- Jeremy Seifert

WHAT CAN WE DO?

Of the total amount of food loss, about 40 percent is in the household.
A typical household of four loses about $600 worth of food a year.

Step 1: Watch the trailer above and learn a little more.

Step 2: If you can rent or stream the entire vido online, check it out and share it with someone you know.

Step 3: When you prepare meals this holiday season, remember those who are going without and only cook what you need.

Step 4: Eat leftovers. Don’t let your perishables go bad.

Step 5: Next time you go shopping, only buy what you need instead of packing your cupboard and fridge.

Let’s commit to making 2012 less wasteful for everyone!