3 Simple Rules To Make Anything Happen

Tasra Dawson —  January 24, 2011 — 6 Comments

You may not have connections, or an education, or wealth, but
with enough passion and sweat, you can make anything happen.
—Gary Vaynerchuck

Do you believe that? Sure. I’ll bet you do.

Do you live it? I’ll bet you don’t.

The key word is “enough.” What is enough passion and sweat? What must you sacrifice to follow that passion and how much sweat is really necessary?

It’s not passion we’re lacking, it’s sweat.

When it comes to sweat equity, that one word “enough” gives you (and me) an out. The excuse may go something like this… I’m really passionate about xyz, but I’m not willing to sacrifice my family for it, so I can’t put in enough work to really make it happen.

Or maybe your version sounds more like this… XYZ means everything to me, but I have to ______________________ (insert any legitimate need or task that has to get done, parenting, working, cooking, cleaning, etc.).

And it’s the truth. You are absolutely right. Don’t sacrifice family. Don’t neglect legitimate tasks. But also don’t use those very things as reasons why you can’t make something happen. Here’s why:

  • Tolstoy wrote War and Peace and he had 13 children.
  • Nick Vujicic, the man with no arms and legs travels the world and wrote a book.
  • Dick Hoyt completed 1000 marathons, pushing his son Rick, who has cerebral palsy.

They were “regular” people with daily lives to manage before they moved beyond the barriers of time and space to make their ideas happen. Their everyday lives didn’t go away, they just CHOSE to live their passion, instead of just talk about it, think about it, and dream about it.

Skills are cheap, passion is priceless.

People are awesome, or so a video says that I found while writing this article. After watching just 1/3 of it, I had to agree. These are regular people who have clearly invested enough passion and sweat into what they love. Are you next? Watch the video, then check out the 3 simple rules to make anything happen.

Rule 1: Love your family.
Rule 2: Work super hard.
Rule 3: Live your passion.

These come straight from Crush It! 3 Simple Rules To Make Anything Happen by Gary Vaynerchuck. He purports that if you correctly channel your passion, you can make anything happen. Start with the first rule, make decisions to love your family and be present when you are with them. Then, be willing to put in the sweat necessary to live your dream. Even if it’s just 5 minutes a day writing your novel, taking 1 picture every day, writing a short blog post… whatever your passion, do it. Daily.

Invest the time, energy and sweat to make it happen. That’s when you start living your passion, you claim your place as a writer, photographer, artist, musician, or whatever other endeavor you dream.

CHALLENGE

This week, my challenge to you is to spend at least 7 hours pursuing your dream or passion. That could be researching a trip to Europe, planning and completing a photo shoot, doing a daily 365 photo project, scrapbooking your family photos. Whatever it is, if it’s really important commit 7 hours to it this week and watch how your attitude and world changes. Are you with me?

Are you willing to live and breathe your passion?
The choice is yours.

Tasra Dawson

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  • Eli

    Again, just what I needed to read. It looks like you have a secret access to my thoughts and needs. I am with you. 7 hours it is! You named my 3 heroes in your post. I would like to start every day remembering Vuk And Dick, and they’re a true example of consistent passion, and pursuers of the passion. Thanks…again :)

    • http://tasramar.com Tasra Dawson

      Thanks for stopping by again! I’m with you in that I need to remember heroes like Nick and Dick… if I could just remind myself first thing in the morning, I imagine each day would be more focused and productive!

  • http://daniellecoppersmithphotography.com Danielle

    I’m in. Starting today! Thank you for you passion for wanting to help others and change lives.

    • http://tasramar.com Tasra Dawson

      Congrats Danielle! That’s a big step in the right direction. You’ll have to let me know how your first week goes!

  • http://jennbrownphoto.com Jennifer

    This is so true! I find when I work harder my success is higher. God and family are number 1 on my list of priorities, but then I work my tail off for my passion. Eek!!! Such a good post! :)

  • sarah

    There is always some kind of a trade off or sacrifice, otherwise we would all live in Utopia because that is the logical thing to do.