These two are inexorably tied together. It is near impossible to find freedom from the ties that bind you without extending forgiveness. Regardless of your religious or spiritual views, forgiveness or lack thereof, affects us all.
Is Good Friday “Good”?
It’s Good Friday, but ironically, for followers of Jesus, past and present, at this time nearly two thousand years ago, it probably seemed anything but “good.” Funny though how what is good for us often doesn’t look so good at the time it’s first given.
Followers of Jesus were mourning and grieving his crucifixion and death on a cross on Good Friday. I can only imagine their fear of any backlash that might come out of being known followers. There may have been self-doubt, embarrassment, hopelessness and a host of other feelings assaulting their minds and hearts at the same time.
The Forgiveness Challenge
I believe I was forgiven on that day for all that I have done and will do that breaks the heart of God. Tonight at a Good Friday service in Atlanta, I was challenged to not only remember and receive that forgiveness anew, but to extend that forgiveness to others, specifically at least one person who I had been holding hostage in unforgiveness. A few names came to mind, but one person in particular stood out.
The Lost Art of Forgiveness
Can I be honest though? I didn’t want to forgive that person. I guess that’s kinda obvious since it’s been more than ten years since there was even any contact with the person. Amazing how time can move on, but my heart and mind still clings to the past. I didn’t want to let them off the hook, ever. They don’t deserve it. They never apologized or even acknowledged the deep pain and wounding they caused. I could go on, but none of that really matters. Holding on and not forgiving is hurting me more than it’s hurting them. Holding on keeps me from finding freedom. The lost art of forgiveness could give me the freedom I desire, if I’d only be willing to let them go.
Finding Freedom
So I did. I wrote their name on a piece of paper, put it in a pile of names from others that were all thrown at the foot of the cross. I let it go and I’m already finding freedom. What about you? Is there anyone you need to release so that you can find freedom? Why not join me this Good Friday and make it a milestone moment where you practice the lost art of forgiveness. I promise you’ll be glad you did.
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